Don't allow keep_alive or call_guard on properties (#5533)

* Don't allow keep_alive or call_guard on properties

The def_property family blindly ignore the keep_alive and call_guard arguments passed to them making them confusing to use.
This adds a static_assert if either is passed to make it clear it doesn't work.
I would prefer this to be a compiler warning but I can't find a way to do that. Is that even possible?

* style: pre-commit fixes

* Re-run tests

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